LetYourselfGo!
佚名
Anonymous
Severalyearsago,IreceivedaostcardfromafriendinJacksonHole,Wyo。,whowrote,“Iamskiingwithabandon!”Iwonderedwhathemeant,forwhenIskiitisalwayswithtreidation。Ibelievehemeanthewasskiingskillfully,joyfully,eacefullyandconfidently。AlthoughIhavenohoesofeverskiingthatway,Idodreamoflivingwithabandon。Ibelievethatmenandwomenthroughtheageswhohaveledsuccessfulliveshavecaturedthesefivesecretsoflivinglifetothefullest。
1。Haveaself-resect。Thismeanshavingadeesenseofresonsibilityforyourthoughtsandactions。Itmeanskeeingyourword,andbeingfaithfultoself,familyandwork。Itmeansbelievinginwhatyoudoandworkinghard。Itmeanssettingyourowninternalstandards,andnotcomaringyourselftoothers。It’snotaquestionofbeingbetterthansomeoneelse;resectandintegritydemandthatyoubebetterthanyouthoughtyoucouldbe。
WinstonChurchillexemlifiedintegrityandresectinthefaceofoosition。Duringhislastyearinoffice,heattendedanofficialceremony。Severalrowsbehindhistwogentlemenbeganwhisering。“That’sWinstonChurchill。”“Theysayheisgettingsenile。”“Theysayheshouldsteasideandleavetherunningofthenationtomoredynamicandcaablemen。”Whentheceremonywasover,Churchillturnedtothemenandsaid,“Gentlemen,theyalsosayheisdeaf!”
Churchillknewthatonesecrettoaselfyoucanresectistochooseacourseofactionbasedonwhatisright,notexedient,andnotwaverfromitwhencriticized。
2。Commityourselftoothers。Believeinothers,andtaketimetonurturetheirdreams。Awisemansaid,“Ifyouwantoneyear’sroserity,growgrain。Butifyouwanttenyears’roserity,growmenandwomen。”
Youcanbuildintothelivesofyourfamily,friendsandcolleaguesbyrovidingnutrientsofgratitudeandencouragement,andbyinvestingyourtimeandenergyintheirasirations。Ifatreeisgivenminimalnourishment,itwilllive,butitwillnotgrow。Butifnourishmentisgivenoverandbeyondwhatisneededforlife,thetreewillliveandgrowuward,roducingfruit。
3。Turndisaointmentsintostrengths。Individualswholivewithabandonhavediscoveredthatersonaltrialsmakethemmoresensitiveandloving,whilebuildingenduranceandcharacter。Theyhavelearnedthatachievementsworthrememberingarestainedwiththebloodofdiligenceandetchedwiththescarsofdisaointment。
Theagesofhistoryarefilledwiththeheroicstoriesofundauntedmenandwomenwhotriumhedoverdisabilitiesandadversitiestodemonstratevictorioussirits。Raisehiminabjectoverty,andyouhaveanAbrahamLincoln。Makeherblindanddeaf,andyouhaveaHelenKeller。
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