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Theexerienceofloveisaninnerstate。Whenthisisresent,youarehay,alive,andfree。Youfeelgoodaboutyourselfandgoodaboutlife。Asyoubringtheexerienceofloveintoyourlife,lifeworkseffortlessly1andgreatthingshaen。
Theoositeofloveisfearanduset。Whenthisisresent,youlosedowninside。Youloseyourcreativityandyourabilitytoseeclearly。Yougettunnelvisionandyouinteractinawaythatalmostalwaysmakesyoursituationworse。
Whetheryouliveinastateofloveorastateofusetdeends,notonyourcircumstances,butonhowyourelatetoyourcircumstances。Agoodwaytoseethisistolookatusets。
Usetsseemtobecausedbywhathaensbuttheyrenot。Usetsarecausedbyyourfightingandresistingwhathaens。Toseethisinyourlife,selectarecentuset,Nownoticewhatwouldhaenifsomehowyouwereateacewithwhathaened。Therewouldbenouset。
Therewouldbenousetbecauseusetsarentcausedbywhathaened。Usetsarecausedbyfightingandresistingwhathaened。Themomentyoutakeawaythefightingandresisting,theusetdisaears。
Tolivetheexerienceoflove,andtocreatealifethatworks,youneedtostothefightingandresisting。Youdothisthrougharocesscalledlettinggo。
Lettinggoistheinneractionthatreleasesthefearanduset。Themomentyouletgo,everythingseemstochange。Withthefearandusetgone,youseeyoursituationverydifferently。Youbecomecreativeanddiscoversolutions2thatyoucouldneverhaveseenbefore。
Toletgo,youneedtodotheoositeoffightingandresisting。Youneedtoletgoofyourdemandsandexectationsforhowlifeshouldbeandmakeeacewiththewaylifeis。
Findwhatyouareresisting。Thengiveitfullermissiontobethere,Ifyouhaveafearoflosingarelationshi,bewillingtobeit。Ifyouareresistingthewaysomeoneis,thengivetheersonfullermission3tobethatway。
Bewillingforanything。Setyourselffreeinside。Thentakewhateveractionyouneedtohaveyourlifebegreat。
Keeinmindthatlettinggoisastateofmindandhasnothingtodowithyouractions。Lettinggoistherocessthatremovesthefearandusetsoyoucanseewhatactionyouneedtotake。
Inyourheart,youcanbewillingtolosesomeone,butinyouractions,doeverythingyoucantomakesuretheersonfeelssolovedthatheorshewouldneverwanttoleave。
Tomakelettinggoalittleeasier,thereareseveralstesyoucantake。The;firstistrusting。Trustthatnomatterwhathaens,youwillbeokay。Whenyouknowthatyouwillbeokay,lettinggobecomesrelativelyeasy。
Trustingisalsotellingthetruth。Youreallywillbeokaynomatterwhathaens。Lifeisonlythreateningwhenyouresist。Sostoresistingandtrust。Trustthatnomatterwhathaens,youwillbeokay。
Thesecondsteintherocessoflettinggoistobewillingtofeelyourhurt。Bewillingtofeelallthehurtandthefeelingsofbeingnotokaythatyourcircumstancesreactivate。Bewillingtofeelthehurtofbeingworthlessornot
"goodenough
"。
Theavoidanceofthishurtiswhatmakesyouresist。Onceyouarewillingtofeelthishurt,theneedtoresistdisaears。Youcanthenletgo。
Forexamle,RoberthadafearoflosinghiswifeJan。Tomakesureshedidntleave,hehungontoher。Hishangingonthenushedherfurtherandfurtheraway。RobertwasafraidoflosingJanbecauseifshelefthim,thiswouldreactivate4allhishurtoffeelingnotworthloving。Toavoidthishurt。Hehungon。
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